Love Affairs
Affair loves us to love it. An Affair Of The Heart. What is an affair? Affair is: matter, issue, concern, business, situation, event or thing. For us to have emotional love affairs for our business or the things we do, would produce results that are far more productive and positive. Just like teenage love affair or any long term love affair when given intense desire would somehow manifest that bond...
November 30th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Habits, Habits, Habits
“Men’s natures are alike; it is their habits that separate them.” – Confucius, the Analects. Confucious Statue. It is indeed our habits that determine our success or failure in life. If one has a healthy habits for life such as perseverance and determination would certainly have a greater chance of completing the project. Our driving habits dictate our driving environment for instance...
November 28th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Causes of our failures or our success
Believe, Trust, Faith and Knowingness that influence the success or the failure. To measure success or failure the society has a standard expectation of gains that can be measured. On Wings Of Doves ; You Can Fly And Be Successful. When there is a failure we all undergo the stages of pity, judgment or condemnation. Whoever is at fault isn’t the issue. To do so we continually cycle our karma into...
November 26th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Happiness Is Our Birth Right.
Many of you might have heard this phrase “happiness is our birth right” before? Born To Be Happy. I heard it years ago from the spiritual gurus or the teachers. I hear it over and over again even from the marketing and the self-growth gurus. Nature happiness or naturally being happy is our human birth right! I loved that. As a novice when I heard it the first time, my feeling was that I DESERVE...
November 25th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Self Developments In Today’s World.
Personal Developments Help Us Grow As The Trees Do. Without self-developments in today’s world we certainly would not be getting far in the race. Even with the diplomas/degrees and work experiences backing us our future developments are at risk. We are in danger of losing our jobs, positions, projects, or assignments. Our developments on our own personal self-growth hold the key to our future success. Our...
November 24th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Sincerity In Business.
We all loved the sincerity that funny old guy at the corner store had. So we always came back to buy our little snacks from him. So one day he retired wealthy. Corner Store That We Used To Love... Then you hear uncle Mah complain that all business people are crooked – that’s why they get rich. Uncle Mah runs a small restaurant. We don’t go there very often because he always grumble...
November 23rd, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Butterfly Effect
The ‘butterfly effect’ theorises that a change in something seemingly innocuous, such as a flap of a butterfly’s wings, may cause unexpected larger changes in the future, such as a tornado. Rajah Brooke Birdwing Butterfly - A mesmerising Sight In the Jungle. In 2004 American fantasy/drama movie starred by Ashton Kutcher butterfly effect and our lives can somewhat be compared to the butterfly...
November 22nd, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
A Personal Development Journey.
Now it’s my opportunity to share with you a synopsys of my personal development - my personal journey. Hi, my name is Rebecca Cheng; I also have a middle Chinese name, which I shall skip. I was born in Darjeeling. Yes, of the famous Tea and holiday resort at the foothills of the Himalayan Mountains. My three beautiful children ages 18 to 22 live with me. I was married for over 18 years, and decided...
November 21st, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
7 Reasons why a Single Mom is a Super and Happy Mom.
7 Reasons why a Single Mom is a Super and Happy Mom. 1) A Single mom gets to make decisions. She does not have to share with someone the worries, the indecisions, and the outcomes. 2) A single mom gets to have her cake and eat it too. Besides making her decisions, she can give opinions. 3) A single mom is a happy mom with a happy soul. Because she loves her children so dearly that she...
November 20th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Mum’s Business Is Never Done.
I run a business out of my home and I wonder how I ever get through the day, not to mention the whole year or years. As a Mum, my job is never done. Winter is coming and the kids are getting sick. Their travel to and from school downtown is wearing them down. So, I’m back to chasing them to take their extra vitamins and minerals. Talk about being a soccer mum; I’m a chauffer mum. The phone rings...
November 19th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Coping With Stress.
Does stress get you down? When Stress Controls You Like The Snarling Tiger. The main problem with stress is that when it comes, it controls you. You won’t even admit it’s there, but everyone else will. You can recognize this monster when it comes a calling. You feel anxious; fear grips you; guilt burns you; pressure keeps you totally deflated. You simply cannot cope with life. This monster can...
November 18th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Introvert vs Extrovert
I believe introvert and extrovert is like opposite sides of the coin. They have equal value and denomination. Just by looking, one is physically different from the other. But it is not quite the same for these people. An introvert personality differs from an extrovert personality. The Introvert An introvert most often seeks another introvert. There is that comfort zone and the commonality. This...
November 11th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Fear of Change
Fear of change is what we tend to avoid. We avoid what hurt us the most. Overcoming fear of change can be a daunting task. If we believe something or someone is lurking in the dark, of course our natural tendency is to avoid going there. If we perceive that is the TRUTH and hold it in our memory bank, we will exhibit or caution others to also avoid going there for fear of dark creatures or mean people. I...
November 11th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
The Leadership Process is an ART.
The Leadership Process is an ART Leadership is an ART, follower is most of us begin because we want to learn from others, from those that have achieved success and attained more experience in life. Leadership today is about our trust in humanity, in evolution, allows us to grow beyond our present state. We eventually evolve that we do not remain the same individual. Evolution is our greatest achievement...
November 9th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
Seven Impactful Ways of the Eye of the Beholder.
Seven Impactful Ways of the Eye of the Beholder. 1) What eye of the beholder means is the concept and the perception an individual hold about a person, the behavior of a persona, a situation or an event. 2) From eye of the beholder can affect the lives of many people. If the eye of the beholder is mature and congruent and correspondence to the need of the situation, lo and behold……..it can bring...
November 6th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng
