Change Your Mind

You need to change your mind about life and the way we think our lives are. We are so caught up in our world, our problems, our pain, our struggle, our lost, our loneliness, our situations that we forget to live.   If only we take a moment to realize that how fortunate we are compared to those who are totally helpless, homeless, sick, destitute and have lost the courage to fight for life. Most...

March 3rd, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng 

Whose Truth is Right?

The Banterer……My  interests lie in creating a better society and a better world. They do go hand in hand and we must all keep this in mind. As George Soros said, “There is a reality beyond our will and we must respect it if we want to succeed. Unfortunately not all want to succeed or achieve with honesty, integrity, but they rather chose to succeed by manipulation. Under manipulation...

February 26th, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng 

Anger is An Acid

Mark Twain said….….Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it stands than to anything on which it is poured. It simply means if we hold on to anger, it does greater harm to us and what we do. The way to overcoming anger is first of all to understand anger and the nature of anger. People are sent to anger management therapy to control their anger. It is one thing to control...

February 12th, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng 

Stress

Stress has been misdiagnosed especially in the last several decades. It has been blamed for many problems that exist today, for example, illness and break up of relationships. When our health is not functioning fully well or experience a headache, we claim these are the signs of stress. The picture of stress is everywhere today. Open the newspaper, it’s about recession, losing more jobs, market going...

February 6th, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng 

Blame

Are we all to blame even if we had no influence on the event or the outcome of an adverse event? When do we need take blame or blame someone else? When we feel someone is morally responsible for doing something wrong. But how can we be sure that we are justifiably right? We can blame it on the people or the causes. But the truth is what we behold and the perception we upheld led us to make such a decision....

January 29th, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng