Skillful Communication

Often times we feel the need to express our opinions and how we feel. There are moments when it is absolutely necessary for healing to occur.  We are in fact, encouraged by therapists to open up, especially in group therapies.  Being in a safe and supportive environment it becomes easier to express ourselves -  like in Alcoholic Anonymous meetings. During our expressions, we are releasing the...

March 8th, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng 

Who Says We Are Smart?

I wonder if some of you remember when you were growing up, your parents compared you with your classmates or your neighbors or even your relatives. They somehow forgot you would feel, of course, all they were concerned was that you graduate with honors, study hard and be better than your classmates, neighbors or your relatives. This was their motivational motto. Boy! It certainly did work to get some...

February 25th, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng 

Listening

What I heard about Mr.  Jay Abraham was something very simple but profound that has stayed with me about effective listening.  He met someone at the airport and the entire time the other person did the talking, all Mr. Jay Abraham did was to be a good and an effective listener.  After that this gentleman commented what a great person he is! Our lives depend on effective listening skills! Michael...

February 15th, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng 

Political Balance Of Power

What comes to your mind first when I say,” Political balance of power”? First thing that comes to mind for most people is for important matters such as business and relationships using communications and interpersonal skills. Recently our group in our organization was suffering from an imbalance of power. It was a case of not understanding each other or rather refusing to accept any other. In...

January 24th, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng 

Communication

Communication is the process to impart information from a sender to a receiver by auditory means, verbal or non verbal, body language, eye contact, touch, sign language, paralanguage, or by writing. Communication is the key to our success in our daily life.  Work communication is the essential and key element for the entire organization to succeed.  Successful communication promotes peace and fulfillment...

January 21st, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng 

Transferable Skills in Demand

Transferable skills help individuals to move to another job that may never have been his/her job experience prior to this point. Without transferable skills one can face layoffs and out of job permanently, and with transferable skills it is a smoother ride. For some it is a blessing in disguise.  Individuals with specific skills and education who have tried and didn’t succeed in their current skills...

January 20th, 2009 by Rebecca Cheng 

Teamwork Conflict

Teamwork conflict can be very costly for the business.  Businesses need teamwork trust and effective teams to work together for a common cause, which is the business.    Note The Teamwork, Preparation And Trying Again Required For This Huge Task – An Elephant Tug Of War – Congratulations To The Winner! Management teamwork is responsible for the maintenance of the entire team.  When...

December 24th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng 

A Well Process Organization Can…….

Managing organization require individuals with expertise in their particular field required in the job. The stronger the skills of the individuals involved, greater the organization resources. A well process organization can with stand catastrophe and disaster. Well Organized And Working Together Organization planning plays such an important role in any large or small businesses. Team work has become...

December 10th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng 

Love Affairs

Affair loves us to love it. An Affair Of The Heart. What is an affair? Affair is: matter, issue, concern, business, situation, event or thing. For us to have emotional love affairs for our business or the things we do, would produce results that are far more productive and positive. Just like teenage love affair or any long term love affair when given intense desire would somehow manifest that bond...

November 30th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng 

Sincerity In Business.

We all loved the sincerity that funny old guy at the corner store had. So we always came back to buy our little snacks from him. So one day he retired wealthy. Corner Store That We Used To Love... Then you hear uncle Mah complain that all business people are crooked – that’s why they get rich. Uncle Mah runs a small restaurant. We don’t go there very often because he always grumble...

November 23rd, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng 

Introvert vs Extrovert

I believe introvert and extrovert is like opposite sides of the coin. They have equal value and denomination. Just by looking, one is physically different from the other. But it is not quite the same for these people. An introvert personality differs from an extrovert personality.   The Introvert An introvert most often seeks another introvert. There is that comfort zone and the commonality. This...

November 11th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng 

Seven Impactful Ways of the Eye of the Beholder.

Seven Impactful Ways of the Eye of the Beholder. 1) What eye of the beholder means is the concept and the perception an individual hold about a person, the behavior of a persona, a situation or an event. 2) From eye of the beholder can affect the lives of many people. If the eye of the beholder is mature and congruent and correspondence to the need of the situation, lo and behold……..it can bring...

November 6th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng 

Phone Fears.

Phone Fears. Once the invention that propelled human kind into the age of communications has been the object of fear for many people over the last 2 decades. If you’re one of those people, you are not alone. Well over 90% of home telephones are subject to telemarketers of one kind or another. This is despite the no-call list in action. The average home telephone receives more than 50% of their...

October 29th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng 

Communication and Interpersonal Skills

Communication and Interpersonal Skills Bad communication can sabotage the wealth we built. Today’s marketers, businessmen cannot afford to fail in their communication and interpersonal skills. In the business world, the market is filled with such skillful and great communicator that the competition is so high. One way communication may be profitable or advantages for one individual for a short term...

October 20th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng 

More Privileges.

More Privileges. Mayor Frank Scarpiti of Markham and MP Tony Wong – York Region in Ontario, Canada. How bad thoughts, beliefs and feelings can sabotage our privileges. When we perceive work as a chore, our whole being succumb to fatigue. Fatigue creates energy of depression, no motivation, and unproductive. The moment we express dislike of the job we are performing, we create karma. Our karma...

October 14th, 2008 by Rebecca Cheng