Blame
January 29, 2009 by: Rebecca Cheng
Are we all to blame even if we had no influence on the event or the outcome of an adverse event?
When do we need take blame or blame someone else? When we feel someone is morally responsible for doing something wrong.
But how can we be sure that we are justifiably right? We can blame it on the people or the causes. But the truth is what we behold and the perception we upheld led us to make such a decision. We cannot justify by blaming on others, what they said or did.
If one cast a stone on an innocent bystander and then a million followed, the followers are just as guilty as the leader.
It’s no excuse that they didn’t know what the leader was doing. It is the first intention within oneself, the first thought, the first feeling that overrule all others. So opportunity or circumstances do appear to promote, to manifest for you and me what we had intended. It may not have been the same innocent bystander when we thought about it in the first place. But the event must play out to fulfill our original seed of manifestation but the player might be changed. It is the event, the experience, the feelings, the manifestation of one’s fulfillment must happen.
Sometimes it seems so much easier to blame someone else for our mistakes. In doing so, we lose our perspective and purpose in life. We miss the golden opportunity to grow beyond our present state and embrace the challenge life offers us.
Sometimes when events are out of place, it is time for us to look for a solution and find new ways and means. But if we chose to blame, we skip the lesson and never know the truth of our capability.
Sometimes someone may just say, ‘I am sorry, blame it on me.’ This is used to escape from a sticky situation and hope we can get out of it.
Blame cannot be taken lightly either when we blame others or let others blame us.
